Ok, so that is not the official title of the book, but is does seem like people like to complain about everything ultimately blaming it all on God. “God is Not Fair and Other Reasons for Gratitude” by Daniel P. Horan, OFM, are a grouping of reflections about what it really means to follow Christ and how that it often counterintuitive to modern thinking and living.
Dan Horan is a Franciscan friar who is an award-winning author, columnist, and theologian, who in his spare time leads retreats and lectures. He is also an assistant professor at the Catholic Theological Union at Chicago.
These reflections are only about a page or two long, so they are a quick read and get straight to the point of the topic he is discussing. The first part covers following Christ in the modern world and reflects on topics such as zombies (yes you read that right), violence, race, capital punishment, and inequalities. Ya know, light topics. My favorite reflection in this section is titled, “From Ashes to Water” and reflects on one of the seven last words of Jesus, “I am thirsty. ” I’m sure this hit closer to home because I was reading the book during the end of Lent, and Frier Horan writes:
Too often this phrase has become overly spiritualized. It is perhaps too easy, too quick and neat to read this line symbolically as a reference to the waters of eternal life. There is a temptation here for us to ignore the real and powerful human suffering that comes with someone dying of dehydration and experiencing real, life-ending thirst. To overspiritualize the Gospel and overlook the real suffering of human being is a problem because the waters of eternal life mean little for those who die waiting for the waters of basic earthly life.
Just to imagining the real thirst, not just the spiritual thirst, that Jesus suffered that day really helped me to understand the world’s need for clean drinking water which pours at the flick of a wrist through our American pipes.
The second part of the book is titled, “Gospel and Culture” and covers common Bible readings that we have heard over and over again, but haven’t
quite taken to heart the lessons as Catholic Christians. We hear them with our ears, but don’t live what they say. One of my favorite reflections in this section is the one titled, “When Prayer Becomes About Us.” Frier Horan discusses the parable in Luke 18, where the Pharisee sees the tax collector praying and his prayers to God are more about how more holy and “worthy” he is of God’s blessings over this sad tax collector begging for mercy and forgiveness. When we hear this parable, we often will laugh at the Pharisee and how blind he is, but don’t we do the same thing when we judge ourselves better than someone else? “The judgment we may cast on our family members, neighbors, friends, or coworkers; the condescending remark we may make in response to a suggestion from another; the self-satisfaction that may come with a sense of personal or spiritual superiority when we compare ourselves with others.” (nope, not me, I’ve never done that – NOT). He goes on to explain when we do that, we are making God into someone we think He should be or how we feel that God should judge that person, which is entirely self-serving. That is not the God we have, nor the God we would even want. God wants us humble, honest and truthful. We are all sinners, therefore we need to go to God just as much as any criminal, family member, friend or enemy needs to go to God. Do not judge yourself against another who is sincerely seeking God. What a lesson!
Finally, the third part is “Vowed Life Today” and covers what it means to live in the world, not just as a religious, but as a Catholics living the vocation of Christian discipleship. There was something that really called to me as I read the reflection titled, “To Be Joyful”. Frier Horan writes:
Happiness is fleeting; it’s ephemeral. It’s a feeling and emotion that at its core is certainly good, or at least neutral, like all human feelings-and like the full range of human emotions, happiness comes and goes. And that’s OK. However, we’re often told, even by religious leaders, that happiness is what we should strive after in making life choices. Instead, Jesus desires for us not to be happy but to have joy, and to have it completly.
Joy is everlasting, where happiness is momentary. Saint Mother Theresa was not happy but was still full of joy (which is the only way I believe she could have done the work she did). Things bring us happiness until we don’t have the newest “thing.” Joy is our family, friends, and seeing Jesus in others. This is how we live joyfully. The whole world can be against us, but those of us who have joy are still able to live with “compassion, kindness, humility, meekness, patience, forgiveness, love, and thanksgiving.”
When you have time to just read a page or two of text, and really want to get a life lesson from what you read, “God is Not Fair and Other Reasons for Gratitude” by Friar Daniel P. Horan is the perfect book to pick up. I was able to quickly read a passage or two during school pick-up or before bed, and it was a great reminder of life lessons and new perspectives on the everyday.